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It's frustrating as hell, isn't it? You can handle work. You can handle money. You can even handle the battle of going out in the world every day and making things on your own as a strong, independent man. But for some damn reason, that thing with women just never seems to get solved.
In a Few Moments You Will Learn What You Need to Know if ...
- You have never had a girlfriend, and just want to get started
- You have dated, but aren't getting the girls you want, just the ones you settle for
- You have had a breakup or divorce and don't know just how to get started again
- You can get girls by getting all pumped up and putting on a fake a personality
- You get girls, but you're always waiting for them to figure out you are a fraud
- You're good at pickup, but shit at a relationship and want a girlfriend option
- You've got a great girl, but you don't know how to keep it going
Hey Guys,
I need a quick male opinion. I can only stay for a second... I gotta get back to my friends.
Got your attention? Good. So let's cut the bullshit and talk like real men, shall we?
There are hundreds, literally HUNDREDS of guys out there who will tell you they have the "magnetic secrets of attraction" or some bullshit. No matter how much success you have with trying to be something you are not, it will not be the success you want. It just won't be real.
There is a way to Get the Girls You Want by being yourself, your best self. And it doesn't matter who you are. But it doesn't come easy. It's a journey, and that journey demands a guide.
I Was Pulling Strippers Off the Stage When the "Pickup Artists" Were Lost In The World of Warcraft
I'm Sean Messenger and I've been meeting and dating great girls for over 20 years. I was pulling drunk little hotties out of clubs all over America when the "pickup" industry was nothing more than some lonely kids in Canada trading emails about magic tricks.
- I was featured on David D's "Deep Inner Game" program
- Featured on his "Interviews with Dating Gurus" Series as Sean Newman
- Program Director of Pickup 101's World Wide Workshops
- Head Coach for Pickup Guru Lance Mason, aka Sensei in The Game
- Taught over 68 workshops in two years
- Coached innumerable private clients at $300/ hour
- Professional teacher and trainer for 15 years
- Founded LVO3, a community of men becoming better men
"Sean has the presence and intensity it takes to be a great pickup instructor... What really struck me was the honesty and openness he brought to the workshop, he really gave all he could of himself at every moment." - Magnus, founder, BristolLair.com
I Learned From the Best Pickup Gurus...
But It Wasn't Quite RightBecause while I was doing all of this and learning "by the book" what the best pickup gurus in the world had to say about women, I was finding more and more that MY experience just didn't match what they said. I mean, these are smart guys with smart ideas, but when I took those ideas out of the Ivory Tower and into the Real World, they just didn't make sense.
I approached at least one woman a day EVERY SINGLE DAY of my life for 2+ years. Some days it was more like 20. Some days there was just one that caught my eye.
But I did it because I knew that there was more to pickup than genius theories and "advanced tactics." There was something huge missing in all the well-meaning education out there. Something that could only come with three things...
I Found a Way to Get "Lucky" Every Single Night
And it doesn't matter if ...
- You want to enjoy dating without getting trapped
- You want to travel and meet new girls everywhere you go
- You want a real girlfriend who treats you good
- You are ready to find someone special enough to love and settle down
It had to be real, I had to be real. I found a new approach to meeting and dating women. I took the very best of what I learned from amazing mentors and teachers like David Deida, Johnny Soporno, and others. I combined it with my experience and background working in scientific publications at Stanford University. I put together a program for myself that got me exactly the girls I want.
I realized you can get Great Girl without being fake, without being an asshole, and without becoming something you're not.
"You're moving into something deeper ...I applaud you - you're an inspiration to me and so many others, bro. - Miso, founder, NaturalSeducers.comThis Is Not Just Another Guys Spin On Pick-Up
This isn't about some new angle or emphasis on one area of pickup. It's not a rehash of the same old things. This is about being real, genuine and authentic. About being you, not some fake, carefully choreographed and rehearsed pickup artist.
And I'll admit, there are some guys out there so good at this particular "game" that they can get lucky 8 nights in a row. He can get his lines right and wear the right crazy get-up and score the good VIP table and some nights get "lucky" and have a girl fall for it. But on the 9th night, he finds himself alone again, it's like the "success" never happened.
That wasn't good enough for me. It's not good enough for you. See, there are hundreds, literally HUNDREDS of guys out there who will tell you they have the "magnetic secrets of attraction" or some bullshit. And it sounds great, but the problem is, even if they know a few tricks that work for them, they can't teach you.
Whatever you do to attract her in the first place, you have to keep doing for the duration of the relationship to keep her attracted. Eventually you will find a woman you want to be real with, what do you do when you attracted her by being fake? Forever is a long time to be something you are not. There is another way, a better way...
But You Can't Get It from DVDs...
Getting good with women is a physical skill as sure as swimming or riding a bike.
The only effective way to teach physical skills is to have custom, interactive, guided instruction. Then you need feedback, and careful modeling. Then you can integrate the experience and traits of people who can do what you want for yourself. You can't get that in a DVD. You simply can't. All you get from a DVD is extra space taken up on your bookshelf. Something you have to hide when a girl comes over.
You Can Get It In Workshops, But It Doesn't Last
You can find teachers who have taught thousands, literally thousands of men all over the world, as me and my expert coaches at LVO3 have done.
They show you the exact steps they used to develop their own skills. They can guide you on exactly what to do next, give feedback on what's working and how to make it even better. Well then son, you are cooking with thermonuclear power.
The only problem is, workshops are expensive. Like $3K expensive. And even if you get a great weekend experience from a workshop, you head home on Monday all by your lonesome, and find the new skills you learned fading fast as you settle back into your old life and old habits.
I saw this happen too many times in the hundreds of workshop I taught, and frankly, I'm fucking tired of watching my hard work go for nothing.
Now It's Your Turn,
This Is the Year You Get Your Shit Handled with Women!And when you do this, you will be discovering what it takes to be a man. I can't tell you what mistakes not to make. I can only give you the skills to do what you know is best for you. I can give you the opportunity to finally get what's been missing your whole life.
The rest is up to you. Nothing happens until you do something.
It is now time to take matters into your own strong hands. No resolution will change a thing unless you take action, and take steps to get exactly what you want. Here are your steps.
You need to stand up and demand what you deserve as a man. Do you want great girls? Then damnit, start doing what it takes to get it. It's not enough to just want the girls you want. You have to GET them.
It's time to choose what YOU want and do what it takes to get it. If you are going to live a good life, and do good in this world for yourself and others, you have to take responsibility first. And this takes us to the most important step of all.
The quest to Get the Girls You Want is not just about feeding your ego, and you know that. It's the quest to be a Better Man. It's the quest to be the Best Man you can be, and live a worthy and joyful life. You have gifts to give, and it's your job to share them.
Now, for the first time, it's all right here for you. And you don't even have to leave the comfort of your nice, warm computer to get it.
"You wrote one of the best things I've seen about pick up artists and alpha males... Dude, you make me proud to me a man. Keep up the gospel." - Dylan, co-founder with Zan of EnlightenedSeduction.comThere Is Only One Way to Get It and Keep It
I discovered three keys to really getting it.
- Fundamentals - You have to learn how be a man that naturally attracts women
- Experience - You have to perfect those skills by practicing and building on them.
- Expert Guide - You have to be damn sure you are going in the right direction.
I learned that these three things, and these alone, made the difference between being a guy that has some success with women and a guy that is successful with women.
I will give you ALL the materials you need to learn, and what's best, the DAILY coaching to make sure you have a guide to get the most from the material.
You don't need to put in 10 years of study when you are getting expert guidance, know the fundamentals and start getting the experience.
I developed the Ultimate Coaching Program as path for your success. This is the New School of Pickup.
The World's First At-Home Workshop with
Personal, Custom CoachingThere's a whole lot you can accomplish on your own. But there's a world more you can do with guides and friends. That's why I created the Ultimate Coaching Program, the UCP.
It's not just another "pay me 7 zillion dollars a month and I'll send you a CD with an interview with another pickup dude who will advertise his stuff, plus a newsletter where I advertise MY stuff." This is a real workshop.
You sign up for just one month at one low price, and you immediately get access to over 10 hours of podclasses (and access to over 50 hours of audio and video in The Vault once you complete the first Bootcamp, "The Fundamentals), PLUS you get a new Bootcamp every month custom-created by me and my coaches to drill real skills... skills that have you talking to hot girls right away.
Why so much? Because I'm tired of seeing guys get ripped off, spending money on monthly programs that don't change anything for them. I can teach you. I've taught thousands of men around the world, and with this program, I can teach you right now.
We don't deal in theory. We deal in results. So we carefully plan our program to match your needs, and then guide you every step of the way and track your results. All you have to do is commit and follow the program, and honor your word as a man to us, and more importantly, to yourself, and you will live a happier life than any mere Bullshit Artist could ever dream.
I am going to make it MY JOB to make sure you get what you want, and I will do whatever it takes. So here's what you get
"The only way to shorten that learning cycle is to have someone with more experience to accelerate learning." Judith Lindenberger, two-time recipient of The Athena Award for Excellence in MentoringMonthly At-Home Skills n' Drills Workshops *UCP Exclusive!
- The World's only at-home Workshop. This isn't just a book. CD or DVD, this is a complete online training program
- Inspired by the programs used by the New York and Chicago Marathons to change novice runners into marathoners in just 6 months time
- Every month, you practice and perfect one new fundamental
- The monthly skills all build on each other, and the daily practice continues and grows as you gain more confidence and get more success
- A revolutionary strategy for building a new "habit" every month, based on behavioral psychology
- Makes these new skills a part of your daily habits, just like brushing your teeth
- Topics include "Get Your Mojo," "Eye Contact" and "Working the Room"
- The skills you need, in the you need them
Value - $300.00
Videoclasses Showing You Exactly How to Be Sexy *UCP Exclusive!
- No need to wait for DVDs: you get the classes delivered INSTANTLY online upon completion of The Fundamentals
- Classes include:
- Perfect Eye Contact - The Sexy Look
- Breathe with Confidence
- Listen with Your Eyes
- Plus other Super-secret Videos you CANNOT get anywhere else!
Value - $500.00
24/7 Dating Helpline
(ask a question and get an answer from SEAN himself within 24 hours. it's like having a coach with you ALL THE TIME!) * UCP Exclusive!
- I've taken the best people from the online communities I've built and supported in the past, and brought them to my new community
- Combines the best in online community-building and support from experts at Fortune 500 companies - always there when you need it
- Learn from the problems others faced and solved, and discover the shortcuts they figured out the hard way
- Get ongoing guidance so you stay on track and avoid pitfalls
- Receive focused, specialized feedback on your specific situation
- You'll get encouragement or even a kick in the pants to get you through the tough parts
- Be supported by a great group of coaches and peers that are committed to your success
Value - Priceless
25Over 50!!! Blatant Bribes to Get You Off Your AssThe Complete Vault of Podclasses upon completion of The Fundamentals.
The Internet marketing experts are telling me I'm crazy for giving you everything at once. They say the best marketing strategy is to rotate what is available each month so you will have to stay a member for months to get all the Podclasses.
I say the best coaching strategy is to give you everything you might need when you might need it and that is right now. I am literally giving away the farm. You get over 10 hours of podclasses right away, and the whole Vault upon completion of The Fundamentals.
Here's just a FEW of the classes you get.
A new Podclass is added each week, so you will get a lot more than is listed.
- Be a Man, Damnit!
- Be More Fun: Banter and Flirting
- Be Strong, Not Needy
- Pass Her Tests
- Social Anxiety Solutions II: Introverts Get Laid, Too!
- Cut the Bullshit
- The Taboo
- Get Out of Your Head
- Celebrate the Pussy
- Work the Room
- First Kiss and More
- Movie Star Body Language
- Date a Bargirl
- Date a Latina
- Social Anxiety (hour 1 & epilogue)
- AoF - Getting Off
- Foreplay
- Advanced Foreplay
- AoF - Dates that End in Bed
- Perfect Text Game
- Make Your Myth
- Be Strong Not Needy
- Direct Game Made Easy... Sincerely
- Real-Deal Rapport (Hour 1 & 2)
- What Women Want
Value - $1250.00 and counting
- My Revolutionary New Class on Intimate Rapport -
The Braveheart * UCP Exclusive!
- The Third Stage Of Rapport - brand new, no one has ever taught this before
- Will never be sold to keep it out of the hands of fuck and run artists
- Beyond charm, charisma and attractiveness
- Opens people up emotionally and changes lives
- Tears down the bullshit structures you have accepted as your life
- Reveals you as a brand new man, not a scared kid pretending
- What all women wish guys did naturally
- Creates the chance for women to open up
- Builds intimacy to satisfy their hopes and dreams
- Free to the committed UCP members
Value - priceless
- BRAND NEW!!! The World's ONLY Technique to Make Sex Great for you AND Her Every Time-
The Iron Man * UCP Exclusive!
- This will turn you from a man into a superman in one hour
- If your sexual performance is not as great all the time as you want (and I know from experience), this will change your life forever
Value - EXTRA priceless
That's a lot of stuff. Hell, I got tired just typing it all. You're probably gone bleary-eyed from reading it. And now you're wondering, "OK, dude, I get it. So bottom-line this beeyatch for me. What's it gonna take?"
I don't have to tell you to do the math. You've done it already.
This is like Devin Hester.....reeeeeeedicolous! ly good value - Cam, UK
That's Over $2850.00 worth of training. Not Books, Not Theories, Real Training for Real Skills
Now let's say that I wanted to make you feel good about buying all of this. Well, that's easy. You know how sales work. All I have to do is make you feel like you are smart for getting a good buy, and you'll want it. Hell, I spent $46,000 on a Lexus I didn't really need (but LOVE), because the salesman knew that if he gave me a deal that no one else could get, I wouldn't be able to resist.
I couldn't. And neither can you. Get ready to feel smart.
I'm not going to charge you $2825.00 for it.
Nope. Because I make up my own rules as I go along, and because I believe you get more happiness out of life the more you give, I'm going to give you all of this for just...
Only $68.97
That's Less Than You Would Pay for 19 Minutes of My Time
That's Just Over $2.97 per Hour for the TrainingI must be high.
But I want you to make a totally educated choice here. So here's some other stuff you could buy for $68.97
- GFA 4
- Bleacher seats for you and a buddy to a UFC fight
- Pay-per-view of the next Wrestlemania
- 600 minutes of quality poon at PornPayPerView
- 2 cases of Spaten Optimator Beer (Arnold Schwarzenegger's favorite)
- 1/15th of a special DVD set from a pickup guru like myself :)
- 29 Minutes of an in person pickup workshop
All of them would be very entertaining. All of them would help you pass the time quite pleasantly.
And all of them would leave you absolutely no different than you were before (except the Spaten, which will leave you very, very drunk).That's enough for some guys. Finding entertainment and distractions like a 4-year-old on a Cookie Crunch high is just fine for them. But you are reading this, so I KNOW you are not one of those guys. You aren't a guy. You are a MAN.
I'm not in this to make quick money. I'm in this to make lasting change. You are not in this for a distraction or a lie. You are in this for immediate results and lasting change. And that is what you get.
Now that, my friend, is a sweet, sweet deal, and you know it.
Matter of fact, it's too sweet. So what's the catch? There's gotta be a catch, right?
Damn straight, here's the catch...
There's Only Room for 151 137 More Men in the UCP
And that was as of the last time I updated this page. I cannot guarantee how long this offer will last. We are a small company, just getting started and only have resources to properly coach 300 men.
We've got all the staff and all the resources to make sure that these custom, time-consuming, real-deal Workshops will work specifically for you, if you act soon enough.
But I have to warn you, this isn't for everyone. So anyone can drop out at anytime, without hard feelings and we'll remain friends. That will create the room for someone who is ready to change their life .There is only room for 300 but they have to be the right 300.
The UCP is Not For Everyone Because...
I want something from you that is worth much more than money. I want your commitment.
I want your word. I want you to honor this agreement. That I will do everything in my power to guide you up the mountain, and you will keep at it, and surround yourself with support to get it done.
We are men, and we are honest with each other, and we support each other. I will call you on your bullshit. And I expect and demand the same from you.
This isn't an empty promise, like you've heard before. Everything you need to take care of this part of your life is waiting in the UCP. You just have to have the courage to take action.
If this level of commitment frightens you, then this program is not for you.
But if it does interest you, then don't hold your manhood cheap. Be one of The 300. This is something NO ONE else would, or could even consider promising.
My $125,164.00 Guarantee
that You Will Get the Girls You WantWe all know talk's cheap, so I'll back it up. I am so sure that the UCP will work for you that I am risking $125,164.00 on the members' success. I promise that if you do not get the girls you want within 12 months, I will give you the next 6 months for free. (300 members x 68.97 per month x 6 months = $125,164.00) I am that sure you will succeed. I have faith in you, now it's time to have faith in yourself.
Will You Give Me 30 Days to Prove the UCP can get you the girls you want by being yourself? You know what yesterday, last week and last month were like. Do you keep doing what isn't working for you or do you take the first step in changing your life? CLICK HERE to take charge of your life.
Sincerely Yours,
PS
Going at it alone can only get you so far. If you spend most of your time trying to do it all yourself, chances are you will stagnate and become frustrated. This is not the way to get the girls you want.
I know from personal experience. My success with women took a dramatic turn for the better when I found mentors who were willing to coach me. That same opportunity is now open to you. Changing your life and future is in your grasp.
PPS
Remember that for taking a $69.95 test drive for one month, you get to keep all the podclasses, even if you don't stick around. No hard feelings and you will always be welcome to come back.
PPPS
If you still haven't decided, check out this unedited, detailed progress report and more from UCP members..
Day 13: Weekend of Women
Great body
Exotic
Sexy
Can dance really well
Intelligent
Likes my sense of humor5 chicks? I was $hitting bricks when I listened to this last Friday (three days ago).
Alright, out and about near Union Square, solo, on the phone with the two friends I have who I can talk to straight about this, looking for support. I haven't even done anything yet and I am a nervous wreck. I used to have balls, I swear. There are chicks everywhere, seems like they're all in pairs though.
Alright I spot a petite young Asian, really cute, I'm across the street from here walking the same direction, I cross, almost get hit by a car, make it to the other side, I look to find her, she has crossed the same goddamn street and doubled back in the other direction to where I just was. Now I'm behind a dumpster in front of a store, taking comfort with my large iced coffee from sbux (btw, why is having a drink in your hand, be it a beer, cocktail or cup of coffee during the day, make this so much easier?), and F U Sean, i'm not following this asian chick anymore.
Keep walking down, I know what I have to do now. I spot a trio of chicks in their 30's, all very hot and tall and slender, and speaking French. Two of them go in the store, 1 stays outside to smoke. I approach, "Par le bou francais?" she says "oi oi" and smiles. I say, "i don't speak french, that's actually the only thing I know how to say. I was just walking to the mall and, well, I just wanted to say I think you are really, really cute, and I just had to let you know." She had a big smile, then she flashed this enormous rock on her hand, and so I went on my way. My heart feels like I just sprinted a mile, but now I got my cajones back.
I proceed directly into the coffee stand inside the mall, there's two cute girls sitting down who I can tell are looking at me, sounded like they were speaking Spanish, I make a note and rehearse some Spanish in my head. I throw away my large, now empty iced coffee and circle to the back to the guy to order a latte. He tells me to go pay at the cashier, so I circle all the way back again, pay, then the guy waves me back to pick up the latte, I'm basically doing laps at this point around the coffee stand and these chicks are laughing at me. I go back to where they're sitting and say "vosotras son latinas?". They look at me with mixed looks, and by "mixed looks" I mean "blank stares". I repeat, "vosotras son latinas? estabais hablando espanol no?". Same result, I say, 'I'm sorry, were you guys speaking Spanish a minute ago?". Turns out they were speaking Farsi and they're some hot Persians. I end up sitting down with the two of them, make chit-chat, they're from out of town, but out clubbing in the city tonight. We make arrangements to meet at a certain club and I get one of their numbers.
Now I get up and am walking to leave the mall, I have a date at a wine bar with a decently cute Bulgarian chick who I met a month ago, and who, as it turns out, works in my building. So I have that on my mind, plus I'm thinking that these two chicks are probably watching me leave, when I see just a mesmerizingly beautiful girl with her friends walking toward me. She is all smiles and we're making eye contact, I walk by and say 'hey', and she says 'hey' back with a big smile, but I have those other thoughts in the back of my mind, which I will later come to regret. I cab back home to get ready for this date, and man, I can't stop smiling, I'm fucking holding back tears because I haven't felt this alive and this happy in a long, long time.
I call up my roommate and one of my best friends, he's naturally more confident and extroverted than I am, not too far ahead of where I want to be, but part of my motivation for doing this, for better or for worse, is we each will have our streaks, but my streak ended last October (after a 1 month hiatus that i've written off), and his has been going strong since the holidays. And he's been on a tear, to the point its actually wearing on me that I can't reciprocate the experiences when we're hanging out. So I tell him to be ready to go to this club to meet these chicks that I just met at the mall at 9:30, and he's stoked.
Date goes very well, chick is cute, but not quite cute enough to genuinely want to date unfortunately. I don't know, still figuring that one out (was only 2 days ago). Proceed back to bachelor pad and race off to this high-end bar and.....the chicks DO NOT F%$#@*^& SHOW UP. I cannot describe with words how embarrassing this is for me that I brought my roommate to meet these goddamn flakes. I text twice over an hour period, get a response back half an hour after that they had to wait for their friend from out of town. Whatever. One thing though, is that they had plans to go to this dance club later in the night, and as we meet people at the venue we're at, we hear this same name thrown around a few times. So we say, f&*@ it, lets go. Only we have no idea where it is, and the first cab takes us to some bar with the same name deep in the ghetto (the Tenderloin, if any of you are from SF). We get another cab, go to the right area...and then go in the wrong club, that is even more ghetto than the previous spot, to the point they won't give us beers in a glass bottle because we might break it in half and shank someone.
We leave, its now 12:50 at least, and we see the place right down the street. Proceed to pay another steep cover...and then have a great friggin night. I don't know what it was, but some chick just came over with her friend and told me she recognized me from the bus, which was a complete lie, cause I would have recognized this girl (she was really, really cute), and then we danced and hung out all night, and my roommate played a perfect wing and took care of this other, quite a bit less attractive friend of hers. I did try to kiss her once, we were dancing really close for a while and I just cupped her chin with my hand, moved in and kissed her cheek because she wasn't going to have it, but we both knew what I was going for. Immediately after I said, "I want to take you out on a date", and she said "Ok" in that sweet, vulnerable voice that women have sometimes when they're with a guy.
So we hung out for another 45 minutes and then took a cab back with her and her friend (my roommate had finally left some time before). Made them laugh a bit in the cab, got out at the same stop as her as she lived only about two blocks from me. Told her I really had a great time with her, she said "me too", i got her number and email, she gave me a hug and then we parted. Sent her a text (listened to Perfect Text Game a little while back, actually could use a refreshed link as its expired) saying "hey ___, sweet dreams, cutie".
So this girl is about 5 years older than me, i've never been successful with that, for whatever reason, I look way older than I am, so I do well sometimes when I first meet these girls because of that. I told her she was just a little bit younger than me, in such a way that she knows she has a few years on me. Sent her what I thought was a short and pretty funny email this morning, asking her to lunch later this week. No response today. She said she was not good at checking emails, I live and breathe emails, who's kidding, I live in my office and get $hit for cell phone reception. So if she doesn't respond tomorrow, I think I'll drop her a text tomorrow night to the tune of "hey ___, been pretty busy so far this week, but would be fun to meet up for lunch later this week. The French Quarter has your name written all over it. Dropped you an email, talk soon - Justin". (French Quarter is this amazing outdoor area with restaurants bunched together outside). Just to be clear, this is all real-time, I dropped her an email earlier today (march 3rd), and i know i'm a little girl and just wrote a novel in a night, but if you read this far, would definitely appreciate your input.
Regardless of what happens with her, I feel like a new man, I went walking to the mall to grab a bite to eat for dinner tonight, unfortunately I was on the phone with my mom the whole time (easy, it'd been too long since I talked to her), but I was getting looks and making great eye contact and definitely would have stopped at least 2 really cute girls were my mom not yapping away. I cannot wait to do the same thing tomorrow.
Sean, I've had short periods in my life where I've been really successful and have dated some really beautiful women, albeit for really short periods of time (24 and never a legit girlfriend, still, I don't know if you could ever come across someone who's f&%#@! up as many opportunities as myself), but I really feel now like i'm about to get to a new level. I want to say that this weekend I went with some major stubble on my face for the first time, and so attribute my success to that, but I could feel the confidence I was radiating on Saturday after your excercise, so I know its much more than that. Still though, I'm going with the scruff again for sure this weekend, i'm also superstitious as all hell.
"Perfect Eye Contact II: Confident, Not Creepy," is simply amazing. For us guys who are okay in the looks dept. but not so present to the subtle signals women send out, this cd is GOLD. I once was blind, but now can see. I also like how you incorporate David Deida at the end. As Will Farrell says in Semi-Pro, "Everybody Love Everybody." Thanks for who you are for everyone." - D.
- J, San Francisco"Sean.. THANK YOU...today is the funnest day I've had in yrs thanks to "Be More Fun: Real Banter & Vibing." I'll push it, this is the funnest day in years I thought I could never reach. And I did this at school! Not a club..where I don't know people etc. in my actual school. Can't wait for the rest of the Banter podcasts and hopefully series." - Zac
"I'm champing at the bit to listen to it! Sean, you're putting out THE BEST material there is on how to be better with women...HANDS DOWN! A combination of David Deida style Presence work and practical advice, and you spell it all out...specifically...very powerful." - Rick
"Sean, I hereby pledge my undying allegiance to you... you are the fucking MAN. I feel like I need to rest my head on ice after the utterly mindblowing experience of listening to the podclass "Perfect Eye Contact II: Confident - Not Creepy."
Ever since stumbling upon the pickup community and getting a grasp on what it took to become successful with women, the concept of eye contact was frustratingly ambiguous to me. I knew it was one of, if not THE most important things to master, but I never really figured it out. I got great at looking everyone I talk to directly in the eye, but the ability to "create that spark with your eye contact" always escaped me. Now I understand the language of the eyes and the mysterious concept of presence. I was blind...but now I'm 20 fucking 20. Thank you Sean. I wish a harem of Venezuelan bikini models upon you." - Peter, 22, Seattle WA youngv206@yahoo.com
"I finished listening to "Cut the Bullshit" and I gotta tell you it is one of the best seminars I have heard from anyone ever, and I have listened thoroughly to Mystery, Style, RSD, David D, David Shade, PU101 and a small host of others. That has to be in the top of ANYTHING I have listened to concerning self improvement and self realization." - John, Orange County CA, xxkorn@adelphia.net
"Sean has a way of explaining things without the BS that resonates with with me & gives me the understanding I need to move forward. I recommend anyone to sign up with Sean's UCP - Ultimate Coaching Program program for awesome no BS man to man coaching." - Fox
"Hahaha... thanks to the UCP - Ultimate Coaching Program, fuck man, I feel great!! The approach anxiety is still there in a way, but it has changed into something different... What used to be nothing but crippling fear has turned into excitement and curiosity with a splash of fear mixed in. People standing in her vicinity when I approach used to make my stomach hurt, now they simply disappear the moment I open my mouth and start speaking with her.I cannot believe all the progress I have made in less than a month.. Seriously, it feels unreal.
Thank you Sean, you have helped me more in 28 days than I thought possible. I have no idea how I will be in 11 months from now, but I sure am curious..." - Denby, Sweden
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Sean, I just got to use your "Perfect Eye Contact - The Alpha Dog" podclass technique in the bar, and it is awesome! I've had that look before from time to time, but never had a clue on how to capitalize on that. Dude, your podcasts are the shit!" - L, BitSeduce.com "You know how sometimes, you hear or read something, and you just KNOW that it's gonna change you somehow?...it's gonna transform a part of you. That line just did that for me!" - Mark, New York"When I took your workshop, I saw you meet, talk, and make out with a girl you just met off the street. I didn't get to hear the conversation, but I remember you kissing her in like 8 minutes. I never figured out how you did this. I have a feeling it's something simple and I'm just thinking too hard. Thanks man, you are truly one of the greatest I have seen..." - Nick, New York
"I really liked the Text Game class. It's like the phone was invented....again.... It must have been how readers felt when David De did his DYD cockyfunny text for Cliffslist. It seems to be a huge leap forward for MAN-kind....like the moon landing." - K
"I signed up for your
UCP - Ultimate Coaching Program and I must say I'm well impressed." - Dec, London"What I love about your philosophy is that it's not about building up layers of techniques, but about using techniques as tools to make yourself aware of the real you and to peel away the layers of social programming that slows us down like the trojans clogging up our computers." - Will, Washington DC
"You always outdo yourself Sean. This newsletter was awesome. About the newsletter the other day about smiling and the teeth-lip touch, is this something that's well known? How have I never heard of this before? So now I can properly smile. On cue. Feels good. Thanks. I'm smiling right now, but it's not on cue." - Z
"Dude, I have to thank you for shining the light on the better way. The "dark side of the force" is so tempting and indeed powerful, but corrupting. You are the fucking Obi-Wan Kenobi of pickup. Oh, not pickup. Getting great girls. : )" - Tim
"I am truly impressed with the integrity I've found in your classes and your writing - it really speaks to the way I've been progressing with my life, and I'm really grateful to have found your products." - Paul, San Francisco
"I really appreciate the podclasses and make good use of them. I've listened to a ton of them and always find them to be inspiring. They tend to be more thoughtful and spiritual than much of the other stuff out there." - Cary
"I just want too say thanks. I've been immersed in PUA material for the last year as I was going through my breakup and preparing to be single again. Like you I found DYD and went from there... I guess the thing that works from most of that type of material is that it teaches you that portraying confidence is critical with woman...
I bought your podclass package and I really found your approach to be refreshing...I absolutely LOVE Hyristian! That dude is just Awesome as are you... After dropping all the other PUA newsletters and websites I follow only your stuff cause you are fucking on it dude..." - Michael
"I approached this group of 3 girls, and i met this AMAZING girl. Your Rapport podclass was fresh in my head and i completely connected with this girl Danielle. I talked with her until the bar closed. Her friends sensed how much we liked each other, so they went upstairs to dance and left us alone to talk. I connected so DEEPLY with her that I know i'll see her again. It felt like the fucking stars aligned and it was meant to be, because we had so much in common. And i talk to tons of girls, but it's rare when i feel like this about a girl. The best part was I was completely BEING MYSELF. Not trying to impress her with lines and BULLSHIT. Just being real and vulnerable. Without your Real-Deal Rapport podclass, I could not have done it so well. THANKS SO MUCH!!!!" - Fred, Dover
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Thanks! I am now dating a very cute blonde premed student from my hometown. And her dad is driving her 8 hours to see me this weekend for the day. And it was HIS idea. Outrageous. Especially since he is very strict and it is his youngest daughter (19) and I am 20.I must give you a lot of credit, with your way of teaching I have become a more confident man, with women, with friends, and with adults.
You teach a lifestyle, a great lifestyle as well. I am confident in myself and knowing that I give her everything she could need.
You have taught me how to bring and keep great women in my life, and it is just the start." - Miles
"LVO3 addresses an area of the pickup community that truly hasn't been unlocked yet. It seems that 99% of the other coaching out there looks at the masculine side of attracting the female without allowing oneself to embrace the feminine side that completes the attraction and creates longevity. What I've learned is that it's easy to attract a female and any workshop or pickup company can easily accomplish this. But life is short and unfortunately so are a lot of relationships. If you are someone that wants to stack a bunch of empty one-night stands, then this workshop might not be for you.
There are many workshops that can meet your needs and when you are done with that part of your life don't be surprised finding yourself looking for something with more substance. Much focus is put on gaining the attributes of a superior man who naturally attracts women in his life. This all centers around finding a purpose in life and discovering your core. If it's a true and balance life that also includes a great woman for the long-term, this is the company that stands above the rest. Compared to the other workshops I've been to, Hristiyan has found what many men are really looking for. His workshop is worth its weight in gold." -Francisco
"I was one of those guys who studied hard, started to make good money with the promise of much more... and then was stuck out in the cold wondering "what the fuck do I do now"? That's when I dove headlong into the 'community' stuff. I got good... really good. And I was all set to take my game to the next level when I moved to Toronto in 18 months after graduation. My plan was to hold down a busy practise... and then hit the clubs three times a week, do day game on the weekends. I was not going to lose, not at this. I would refashion myself in the manner of my heros and kill the helpless boy I used to be.
And so I almost lost the thing I joined the community to get in the first place. I had this great girl (pediatrician, medical researcher in Africa, decorated classical Indian dancer, leader of all her friends, sexy as HELL) who I kept breaking up with because I wanted the club hottie. Or at least prove to myself that I could do it. By doing it. Again and again.
I broke up with her 4 or 5 times and got back together with her each time. The next time really would have been the last time. She loved me (and when I say 'love', I mean it in every emotional and spiritual sense of the word) but she couldn't keep putting up with what I was doing to her.
Completely torn between being the pimp that I knew I could be, and having this creature that I would have KILLED to have a couple years ago -- between slaying the phantom in my head and getting the real life girl -- I talked to my best friend. A friend in the trenches who was going through what I planned to do. A man whom I trust. A man for whom I would jump on a grenade in battle.
He told me that I was one lucky son-of-a-bitch. Yes he'd banged scores of girls in a couple years, from club hotties to models... but he was unhappy. He wished that he had a girl of the kind that I was just about to throw away. That I should not look a gift horse in the mouth. That I was destined to deeper and greater things than getting my count of bedpost notches into the triple digits. I could refashion the world in my own image. I was a bad-ass with a heart.
He told me everything you just wrote in your newsletter on introverts.
I realize now that I was trying to be something that I really was not. I am a builder. I set down roots. I draw my power from within. I am just like you Sean. I am the same way.
So I unsubscribed from all my pickup newsletters and got rid of the my 'community' bookmarks. Except for yours -- you somehow sneaked through the filters, you lucky bastard.
And I've gotten back together with my girl. A girl who I'm going to love and appreciate as much as she loves and appreciates me. Who also wants four children. Who also wants me to become a self-made billionaire, and cheers me with each little step I take toward that crazy goal I've set for myself. Who supports me in my goal to set up a history and philosophy foundation from my profits. Who likes it when I fix her computer and build shelves for her. Who watches YouTube videos on global warming and energy efficiency with me, as we eat KFC in our sweatpants on a cold winter morning after a night spent sleeping very little. Who is close to her family, and who loves my baby nephew. Who likes future benevolent patriarchs. And who will probably, in time, wear three months of my salary on her left ring finger.
Sean, I used to think you were a massive dick. I hated you. But I've come to respect you. A lot. And I want you to never stop teaching." - A, Toronto "You have the knowledge, passion, and intensity that makes the best podcasts / audio products the community has ever seen." - G
"I am now able to feel a woman when she walks by or into a bar and notice that physical reaction in my body that I now know is telling me "she is the one". When I get "that feeling" I approach slowly with strong eye contact and tell her EXACTLY what I feel without colapsing into being a pussy, nor posturing like I don't care. It is amazing, as they MELT when this happens. The connection that happens after this is AMAZING and fun....not work- which is the way I feel about pick up. I do this at bars and clubs-going against conventional thought. For awhile there I thought I was blazing a new trail.....then I read/listened to your new material, and YOU are already there, ahead of me on that trail. Way to go man. Awesome stuff." - Zach, Vancouver
"I saw a girl that was beautiful (understatement, she was gorgeous... just my type). She was walking straight towards me and there were few people around but I didn't care... In fact I didn't even think this time, I only felt a microsecond of intense fear and then I approached her directly.
Man, I must say that the UCP - Ultimate Coaching Program is slowly but surely having an effect on my life and the way I view the world. Just 2 weeks ago the thought of approaching a beautiful girl directly on the street WITH PEOPLE AROUND ME would make me shit my pants." - D
"I took Hristiyan's LVO3 workshop this past weekend. The workshop met my expectations and then some. It just blew my mind and my whole reality wide open.
The Be Strong, Not Needy and all of Hristiyans podclasses will give you the best idea of what this workshop is all about. Hristiyan, Brian, Jennifer, and Marcie ran a number of different exercises with us throughout the weekend, from helping us figure out our personal mission in life to getting more in our bodies and being more sexual to soul-gazing and forming deep emotional connections through eye contact alone. If you think its impossible to form a solid connection with somebody without saying anything, just through touch, eye contact, and body language, then this will change your reality too.
If you plan on taking this workshop, my biggest piece of advice to you is to just give it your all and to not hold back, because you will get as much out of the workshop as you put into it. Hristiyan asked us all on the first night, on a scale of 1 to 10, how hard we wanted to be pushed over the course of the weekend. Every guy there, myself included, told him 10‚Äö and thats what we got. It was incredible to watch how much we had all changed by the time Sunday night rolled around. I almost didnt want the workshop to end, because I was getting so much out of every day and every exercise and just having an amazing time. Best of all, the coaches gave each of us personalized feedback to help us figure out where we should go from here in order to keep improving.
I cant thank Hristiyan and Brian enough for putting this phenomenal workshop together. It has helped me feel more present and in my body, more sexual, and more in touch with my masculine core. I met some amazing people over the weekend who I hope to see again before long. I have a much better idea of what my mission in life is, what I still need to work on to become a better man, and where I want to take my life from here and I cant wait to see what the future holds." - Steve
"The great thing about Hristiyan's stuff with LVO3, is that he doesn't settle. He doesn't settle for what could and would get you laid.. he shows you what it takes to blow her away. Just friggin' take her to another dimension. He's the instructor for guys who really LOVE women." - Sam
“If You Give Me 30 Days to Prove I Can Change Your Life then I will Give You $1250.00 in Podclasses”That's 25 CDs worth of Podclasses, over 25 hours of training. They sell for $50.00 each. If you tried hard enough you could probably get them on sale for $24.00 each for a total of $600. You can get all the Podclasses plus a lot more. Just give me the chance to prove I can help you to get the girls you want. You get all Podclasses for taking a 30 day risk free test drive of the Ultimate Coaching Program. You get to keep them even if you do not stick around for the second month. No strings attached. I can do this because I know you will see progress and your confidence will soar. I know you will not quit what is working for you. But don't hesitate... There's only room for 300 guys in the Ultimate Coaching Program. It is filling up fast. Once it is full, this offer will be gone. Click Here to Start Your Free Test Drive Now Cut the Bullshit
“I don't buy any pick up products anymore,I have enough information all I need is lots of practice,but I did spend the money for Sean's latest podcast, and I have to say it spoke to me more than anything else I've heard since getting into this. Sean cuts through all the crap and gets to the reason most of us ended up here,and having been out with Sean and seen a little of him in action, it is incredible to think where he came from and how he still works at managing his social anxiety even now. Highly inspirational stuff for me,really looking forward to the follow up. - Tim, UK The Taboo
"Wow is mo'fuckin right. This IS what it's all about. It's like it's all come full circle now... Before I knew love and pain was what it was all about, but I lacked the BASIC skills to get and keep a high quality chick... then I got the skills and that part of me got kind of lost or I wasn't sure if it was real because of all the community bullshit... now I'm seeing what it is to be a real man--you have to be it all--for you. For her. Face the fear. No regrets. Pain is inseparable from love. Hristiyan put it perfectly, taking your BALLS and your HEART -- smashing them together and offering them to her-- to the world. So awesome you guys are going in this direction. And I'm so lucky I met you towards the end of your "pickup evolution"... This is what men really WANT (actually it takes a while before we realize it's what we really want)... what we really NEED. Thanks so much for letting me download this. You rock man. - Caleb" Get Out of Your Head
Celebrate the Pussy
"By adopting the mindset that Hristyan talks about in his "Foreplay" and "Get into your body" podclasses, I've become much more physically and sexually present with women. At my date last sunday I enjoyed the girl in a bookstore bathroom, after warming her up in the foreign language section. Ooh la la. I never thought I'd be doing this kind of thing...let's just say that Hristyan's podcasts are very inspiring." - Matt, USA Work the Room
"I tried to take a bit from the class out with me this weekend, and I must say I have had the most fun I have ever had at the bar we went too, and I have been there a few times. Thanks!” - Miles First Kiss and More
“fuckin great!! it's no super-special 'weird kiss technique' but kinda basic (anticipation, gentle but firm...) but totally detailed. Best information ever i heard about kissing and first kiss (searched and read specifically about this in the past)!" - G Movie Star Body Language
Date a Bargirl
"My ultimate test was at a strip bar. I went to my room listened to Sean Messengers podclass on strippers, lol. I immediately went to a strip bar, and I applied everything I learned from deep rapport, to maintaining left eye contact and not her boobs. Wow, this girl fell hard for me unfortunately. I got 4 lap dances from her and she refused to take my money. Can you fukn believe that? She straight up told me "I'm really falling for you." So here I was making out with this hot stripper in NYC! Sign me up for the next advance class please. - B, CA" Date a Latina
"I had to stop listening "date a latina" podcast in the middle and write this email...This podcast was the best ever I heard. This really opened my eyes on how to have rapport. I have never seen anybody present it in such a great way. From now onwards, I will buy whatever you sell with seanmessenger.com label :)" - Kal, TX Social Anxiety |
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